I am not meaning to upset anyone but I just cannot stand widdlers.

Widdlers are people who play at 1000 miles a hour for no good reason.

They play 5 minutes solos trying to make their fingers bleed even though it doesn't actually fit the song. Bloody show offs the lot of them

Playing fast is good as long as you know when to do it. I hear some stuff these days where the techniques are more important than the song. By all means play fast but only when it fits.

One of the hardest things to learn on guitar is when not to play, or when not to play too much/too fast

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!